I think I'm reaching mine. I've never hit it before, so I can't say for certain. I think it will be determined tomorrow night, following a conversation with the boy. I talked to him briefly today, it'd been almost a week again.
The parts that I took away from the conversation were that he's been talking to his exwife every day, about the baby, but talking to her. Where as, it's too difficult for him to talk to me, he needs his alone time.
So I'm having to face the fact of not being needed, or wanted at this point. How does one go from "perfect, like you were made for me" to just another friend that you keep in contact with infrequently?
I am so lost. I don't know what to do.
I don't think I am capable of being "just" friends, and that being basically a facebook friend who catches up every once in a while.
I can't do a one way relationship/friendship again. I always find myself in them. It's not healthy. It hurts me so much that they don't care, really. I hate that I'm always not worth it. I hate that they never care more about me than they do themselves. I hate that I love so deeply and no one wants it, except for a short time while they're lonely.
Do I continue on? Or sever ties?
The problem being- I love him with every bit of me. But if I'm not anything to him anymore, I have to stop. I don't want to, but, it is what needs to happen if that is the case.
So today I'm feeling pain and despair. I don't know what to do.
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